Steve Hudgins

About Dr. Steve Hudgins

Trusted Voice. Transformative Message.

Dr. Steve Hudgins is more than a counselor; he is a trusted voice guiding families and individuals through life’s hardest turns. With a message that transforms broken pieces into strength, his work challenges, heals, and empowers. When others offer noise, he offers clarity. When others step back, he steps forward. One piece, one truth, one life at a time, your story deserves that kind of voice. 

“I do not see broken families; I see mosaics. Each scar, each story, each shattered piece has a place in the masterpiece. Healing does not mean erasing the past; it means honoring it enough to rearrange it with purpose.” – Dr. Steve Hudgins

From the Battlefield Ready to the Therapy Room

Dr. Steve Hudgins is a decorated U.S. Army veteran, cancer survivor, and licensed professional counselor supervisor. His life journey is anything but ordinary. From the rigors of military life to the complexities of counseling rooms, Steve Hudgins has walked through fire and emerged refined, resilient, and deeply committed to helping others heal. His military service not only shaped his discipline but also exposed him to the realities of trauma, resilience, and the human spirit. A career-ending injury altered the trajectory of his life and paved the way for a new calling.

Engineering the Mind After Engineering Systems

Following his time in the military, Steve Hudgins embarked on a successful career in telecommunications engineering and management. But while he was building systems, something deeper was stirring, a desire to understand the systems within: the patterns, beliefs, and wounds that shape the human experience. This shift led him to pursue counseling, merging analytical precision with emotional depth. Today, he brings both head and heart to every counseling session, podcast conversation, and teaching moment.

Therapist. Teacher. Truth-Teller

As a licensed professional counselor supervisor, adjunct professor, and podcast host, Dr. Steve Hudgins has helped hundreds of individuals, couples, and families navigate life’s messiest challenges from trauma and addiction to blended family dynamics and spiritual confusion.  He is especially passionate about mentoring men to lead with integrity, emotional strength, and spiritual clarity. His clinical expertise is enriched by his own life experiences, including his wounds, victories, setbacks, and the grace he has found.

I can’t say enough good things about the therapy services I have received from Dr. Hudgins! I have been working with him regularly for several years, and he has helped me through divorce, remarriage, struggles of being in a blended family, and everything in between. He is a true expert and has firsthand experience in many situations people encounter. I highly recommend him to anyone, especially if you are looking for someone who is faith-based and truly cares about you and your family!”– Hope G

Other clients, like Hope, often say they feel seen, heard, and deeply understood, especially when life feels overwhelming. With compassion earned from his own journey, and a growing list of trusted reviews behind him, Dr. Steve Hudgins meets people where they are with empathy, honesty, and lasting tools for change.

The Coached Soul Podcast

Through his weekly podcast, Coached Soul, Dr. Steve Hudgins brings raw honesty, clinical insight, and spiritual depth to the conversations that matter most. Whether he’s unpacking trauma, navigating relationships, or exploring purpose in the messiness of real life, each episode offers more than just advice; it provides a mirror, a moment, and a path forward. Rooted in his own lived experience and backed by years of counseling and research, Coached Soul is where stories meet strategies, and where soul care meets real-world resilience. You’ll hear personal reflections, guest interviews, and practical tools for healing, wholeness, and growth along with his co-host, Kenya Evelyn. If you’re craving meaningful dialogue, tired of surface-level self-help, or simply trying to make sense of your story, this podcast is for you. Come as you are, leave with something more profound.

The Vision Behind Mosaic Families

 Blended families aren’t broken, they are mosaic: uniquely beautiful, shaped by contrast, complexity, and grace. As a doctoral graduate of Liberty University, Dr. Steve Hudgins coined the term Mosaic Families to reframe how we understand step-parenting, co-parenting, and remarriage. His dissertation uncovered a missing piece in how blended families are represented and supported, both in clinical literature and cultural narratives.

For decades, pop culture and Hollywood have portrayed stepparents as villains and blended families as chaotic or dysfunctional. These portrayals often ignore individuality, erase personal identity, and blur the essential boundaries needed for relational health. Dr. Steve’s research shed light on a new lens, one that values each family member’s uniqueness while honoring the whole.

Mosaic Families isn’t just a phrase; it’s a paradigm shift. It recognizes that healing and unity do not require sameness. Instead, they are born through understanding, respect, structure, and love. Today, Dr. Steve Hudgins is actively developing the Mosaic Family Systems Theory, a new clinical model designed to bring clarity, boundaries, and hope to families navigating life after divorce, remarriage, and other life transitions.

Author of The Journey – Not the Destination

In his first published book, Steve Hudgins shares his experiences with trauma, faith, fatherhood, and finding joy in the face of adversity. It’s a vulnerable, yet hope-filled, roadmap for anyone navigating loss, identity, or spiritual healing. 

A novel reader added her review as, “This introspective and thought-provoking book sets you on a transformative path of self-discovery, and healing using discussion questions to guide self-reflection. These questions help readers dig deep into their own experiences and emotions to encourage introspection and self-discovery. The author beautifully emphasizes the idea that life is an ongoing journey, and every step, no matter how challenging or triumphant, contributes to our personal growth and understanding.” – AG

Media, Mentorship, and Ministry

Dr. Steve Hudgins moves fluidly between platforms, from the counseling room to public speaking, from classroom lectures to private strategy sessions with leaders under pressure. He has worked with professional athletes, published authors, and high-level creatives, offering grounded guidance where it matters most, behind the scenes. He regularly speaks at churches, conferences, and leadership gatherings, addressing topics such as mental health, emotional resilience, and preserving families in a fragmented culture. As both a clinical supervisor and adjunct professor, Dr. Steve trains the next generation of therapists at a state university, with a heart for healing and a head for real-world complexity. His passion for mentoring church leadership, strengthening Mosaic Families, and bridging faith with emotional wellness makes his voice both trusted and timely. Dr. Steve brings clarity, compassion, and credibility to every conversation.

Faith, Family, and the Future

Dr. Steve Hudgins is a proud father of two married children and “Papa” to two beautiful grandchildren, with another on the way. He lives in Oklahoma, where faith is not just a belief system, but the compass that guides every decision he makes. But the road here has not been easy. Before becoming a therapist, Steve walked through the painful realities of multiple marriages and divorces, including one that ended in 2017, just as he faced a personal health crisis. He often describes that season as his “Job moment”—a time marked by loss, grief, and refining.

Yet it was in those ashes that a deeper purpose began to form. Becoming a licensed therapist in 2012 and later earning his doctorate, Dr. Steve H. began to see his story not as something to hide but as something to offer. Today, he helps others heal not from theory, but from experience.

“I believe healing is possible. Not through perfection—but through truth, grace, and the courage to begin again.” — Dr. Steve Hudgins

Dr. Steve Hudgins – Areas of Work

🟩 I. Present Day (2014–Present)

Therapist | Educator | Author | Speaker | Podcast Host | Christian Leader

  • Adjunct Professor at Rogers State University, teaching behavioral health, counseling, and psychology
  • Licensed Professional Counselor-Supervisor (LPC-S)
  • National Certified Counselor (NCC)
  • Doctorate in Education (Ed.D.) in Community Care Counseling: Family and Marriage
  • Presidential Council Member with the National Religious Broadcasters (NRB)
  • Founder of Mosaic Family Systems Theory (MFST) – a trauma-informed model for healing in remarriage, stepfamily life, and complex family dynamics

Author of two books:

  • The Journey—Not the Destination (2023)
  • Piece by Piece: My Blended Experience of Mosaic Family (Coming Fall 2025)

Host of the Coached Soul podcast | Founder of CoachedSoul.com

Specializes in:

  • Mosaic family healing
  • Divorce recovery
  • Attachment trauma and identity restoration
  • Spiritual and emotional integration in counseling
  • Faith-informed therapeutic practice

🟨 II. Public Voice & Communication (1986–1990; 2012–Present)

Author | Media Communicator | Speaker | Creative Writer

  • Author of books, poetry, and reflective prose focused on faith, family systems, emotional healing, and spiritual identity
  • Published academic articles, clinical reflections, and faith-based content
  • Completed a doctoral dissertation exploring divorce, stepfamilies, and emotional reconstruction
  • Former journalist and radio host (1986–1990), returning to public voice in 2012
  • Host of Coached Soul, a podcast where therapy, story, and faith meet
  • Known for a unique voice that merges clinical insight, biblical truth, poetic depth, and personal authenticity
  • Regular speaker at churches, universities, workshops, and professional events

🟧 III. Technical Field – Telecommunications (Approx. Late 1990s–2014)

Telecommunications & Systems Engineering | Project Management

  • Led teams in telecommunications infrastructure and systems integration
  • Specializing in technical troubleshooting, network design, and high-pressure leadership environments
  • Developed structural thinking, problem-solving, and conflict resolution skills
  • This phase laid the groundwork for his clinical insight into how systems, both technical and relational, break and can be rebuilt with care

🟥 IV. Military Service (1992–2000)

U.S. Military Veteran | Leadership & Resilience Training

  • Served honorably in the United States Military for eight years
  • Developed strong foundations in discipline, emotional control, systems accountability, and leadership under pressure
  • This formative period still shapes his therapeutic approach to trauma, trust, identity, and restoration
  • Passionate about supporting veterans, first responders, and military families in his counseling work

Signature Message Across All Roles:

“I have spent my life studying how things break, and how they heal. Whether in systems, families, or the soul, I believe brokenness is not the end. With grace, structure, and intention, we can rebuild something sacred.”

Dr. Steve Hudgins describes his life as

Breath of Yahweh

I ask my clients who are you? I sat down and wrote this piece in identifying who I am. In my very essence, I am the breath of Yahweh—a testament to the divine love that courses through me, sustaining and empowering my spirit. As a child of God, I carry within me the unshakeable promise that I am woven into the fabric of His creation. Each inhale connects me to the universe’s pulse, a reminder that I am not merely a spectator in this life, but an essential participant in a divine narrative far greater than myself.

As I traverse this world, I recognize the warrior within me, forged in the fires of adversity. Every challenge has honed my resilience, and every battle faced has equipped me with faith as my armor. I stand firm, not just for myself, but for others who walk the same path of struggle. My identity as a warrior is born from the knowledge that I am protected and empowered by Yahweh’s breath. In this truth, I find the strength to rise, not in fear, but in fierce courage, ready to confront whatever storms may come.

Yet, the depth of my survival truly resonates with the breath of Yahweh. I am a survivor, reflecting the boundless love that refuses to let me be defined by my scars. In moments of darkness, when the weight of despair seems insurmountable, I hear the echoes of His promises in the stillness. I stand not merely as one who has weathered storms, but as a living testament that hope thrives even in the most desolate places. The breath of Yahweh fills my lungs with purpose, igniting a flame within me that cannot be extinguished.

In the tapestry of my relationship with God, I see a beautiful intertwining of love, strength, and perseverance. In the quiet moments of prayer, I feel the gentle caress of divine presence, a reminder that I am held in sacred grace. When I stumble and fall, I hear His whispering reassurance, “You are my child, and from you, I breathe life into the world.” This relationship is not conditional; it is woven into my very being. My trials become His trials and triumphs, for we are inextricably linked in this dance of faith.

Thus, I embrace my identity with pride. I am the breath of Yahweh, embodying the light that shines even when shadows threaten to envelop me. I am a child of God, a warrior in the fight for life, and a survivor shaped by both trials and triumphs. Each breath I take is a declaration of my faith and a reminder of my purpose: to share this innate divinity with others, to uplift, to inspire, and to reflect the love that has been poured into me. In this understanding, I stand firm, ready to face each day as a warrior reborn with every breath of Yahweh that fills my spirit. I am the breath of Yahweh; in every exhale, I carry the whispers of creation, reminding me that my existence is part of a divine symphony.

Steve is an Active member of

  • ACA – American Counseling Association
  • AACC – American Association of Christian Counselors
  • NRB – National Radio Broadcasters
  • NCC – National Certified Counselor
  • Profile on Psychology Today

Phone

918-760-7622

Location

3104 S Elm Place Suite G Broken Arrow, OK 74012